the issue is due to MX record lost some how after shared mailbox created.
e.g. my personal domain shin.li, MX record check
id 58774
opcode QUERY
rcode NOERROR
flags QR RD RA
;QUESTION
shin.li. IN MX
;ANSWER
shin.li. 21599 IN CNAME shinli.com.
shinli.com. 14399 IN MX 0 shinli-com.mail.protection.outlook.com.
;AUTHORITY
;ADDITIONAL
go to Microsoft domain page, https://admin.microsoft.com/AdminPortal/Home#/Domains
found out all records are missing.
re add all required record to DNS server, and it will fix the issue